Sunday, February 14, 2010

BElieVe.....

Hmmm....nice word to say or to talk about. and a word with a deep meaning. How many times we used this word even sometime we don't care, but rather the most important word which should be taken care of.

When we were kids, we used this many times to protect ourself "Believe me mom, i had nothing to do with the empty chocolate jar" some time to hide our innocence, some time for some other specific reasons, but the meaning never changed unlike our intentions.

We always know the gravity of the impact the word can make, but sometime hardly understand the effect of it and it is this time that we lose the belief of others on us. although we may gain some.
People have there own beliefs to follow, all to live life but one belief is common "no one belief the believes of others", why..because we are too strong( or week) to leave ours and adopt or acknowledge others. This is the reason of riots, quarrels, borders and killings.

We believe in GOD, fate, destiny or anything else, but whatever it may be, it is the driving force for ourself, a support to reach to the top and a thing to blame. But, it is always us who are responsible for what ever acts we do, be it good or bad.

Its interesting how a same word can be a reason of bonds in relationships, and at a same time, can cause hatred amongst many. But its up to us where we want to use that, the meaning is a gift,rather then an excuse, which can be used many times, but should be used with caution because when we say it, others feelings are attached to what we say after it.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

DownWAYs.....

Well this is what happens wen u work and aspire fr something fr more than 3 yrs....and u couldn't gt that..
1. U loose interest in the most interesting things....
2. U feel like this might be(or this is) the end f every thing.
3. U feel like people are howling at you..
....and many more....

But that is all what we feel or believe. and since we previously believed that we will get what we desire, and now that it has been proved wrong, what we are feeling or thinking rite now, is also and will be proved wrong at some time. its just that the time of realization should come soon.

But (again) there are lot more things to do than just to mourn at things we missed and spend a large amount of time thinking about it.(off course thinking about it for the whole life would be an idiotic thing to do..and the person would be no less than an idiot himself.) so what can we do in such situations.
First, since the over-confidence of getting the aim is shattered, so come down to earth ..For what????..This is the answer: Great people have said that history should be read and learned so that we don't repeat the mistakes of the past (I don't know who has said this and i don't know what mistakes have taken place.) at least we know our history and mistakes and now is the time to improve them. and not just that, other possibilities that can take place. ...How???? Answer: Since we are now back to holding our ground and can see the reality, its easy to look for widen up our thinking process and think beyond what we have thought to be our limits.( What we think our limit is, becomes our limit, so....) and by this, see all the situations which might come and be prepared for those.

If you have not got something, then wasting time thinking for it is....a waste of time...Instead think that it was not luck but something else..and that something (GOD or DESTINY or even DEVIL) wants you to learn something more than what you have already learned...and if you learn that, you will certainly get better from what you desire..because that will be what you deserve....hard-work never goes in vain..so rest assured, if you have really worked hard, you will get something better then what you think, just continue the hard-work, coz....

LIFE IS GOING THE SAME WAY IT WAS EARLIER....SO WHY CANT WE...