CHanGe!!!!

Everyone wishes to be perfect!! and everyone eyes to be GOD, but all we do is to follow two ironical statements through out our life...

No one's born perfect, its just what we see, learn and experience in our childhood, we become what we become... for a long time, till a time when we normally don't care whats rite and whats wrong, whats necessary and whats not.!!! When such things comes to light, our thinking, which always make us do what we do, changes... when earlier there was just the whole sun to see, now there remains only few rays of light...

People say " take life as it comes ", well , life is not always same, one cannot have everything and anything, through out his or her life... and to take it as it comes, we need to drift.. some times a little. some times too much.!!!..

Its a universal truth " Change is the only constant " , and it is indeed the only constant.. though , ironic in itself.. the statement holds true for everything.. our surroundings change, the toys we use to play with change, habits , friends, priorities , everything changes with time.. and if all these things differ at one point.. wouldn't it be correct to say that all in all, we change, from what we were to who we are and what would we become!!!...

Some say "deep down, we are always the same person" .. what is the deep down, and how do anyone knows it.. we are what we do, show, pretend to the world.. how can it be a true way to be judged by others when we are not true to ourselves... and is it really easy to see someone's deep down, what the person is from the inside ( or whatever ) , ' I have my way of seeing the world, and it is different ' yes, it is different, that is the reason why i cannot see or think the way someone wants me too, or the way other person see or think!! so how am i ever going to know, what rite for whom??!!!..

All in all .. we live the way we want, or the way we should, sometimes, it matters for us to look out of the box, to do something unconventional of what we are used to, but unless its not hurting any one and the job is done.. its not a bad deal.. is it ??

BElieVe.....

Hmmm....nice word to say or to talk about. and a word with a deep meaning. How many times we used this word even sometime we don't care, but rather the most important word which should be taken care of.

When we were kids, we used this many times to protect ourself "Believe me mom, i had nothing to do with the empty chocolate jar" some time to hide our innocence, some time for some other specific reasons, but the meaning never changed unlike our intentions.

We always know the gravity of the impact the word can make, but sometime hardly understand the effect of it and it is this time that we lose the belief of others on us. although we may gain some.

People have there own beliefs to follow, all to live life but one belief is common "no one belief the believes of others", why..because we are too strong( or week) to leave ours and adopt or acknowledge others. This is the reason of riots, quarrels, borders and killings.

We believe in GOD, fate, destiny or anything else, but whatever it may be, it is the driving force for ourself, a support to reach to the top and a thing to blame. But, it is always us who are responsible for what ever acts we do, be it good or bad.

Its interesting how a same word can be a reason of bonds in relationships, and at a same time, can cause hatred amongst many. But its up to us where we want to use that, the meaning is a gift,rather then an excuse, which can be used many times, but should be used with caution because when we say it, others feelings are attached to what we say after it.

DownWAYs.....

Well this is what happens wen u work and aspire fr something fr more than 3 yrs....and u couldn't gt that..
1. U loose interest in the most interesting things....
2. U feel like this might be(or this is) the end f every thing.
3. U feel like people are howling at you..
....and many more....

But that is all what we feel or believe. and since we previously believed that we will get what we desire, and now that it has been proved wrong, what we are feeling or thinking rite now, is also and will be proved wrong at some time. its just that the time of realization should come soon.

But (again) there are lot more things to do than just to mourn at things we missed and spend a large amount of time thinking about it.(off course thinking about it for the whole life would be an idiotic thing to do..and the person would be no less than an idiot himself.) so what can we do in such situations.
First, since the over-confidence of getting the aim is shattered, so come down to earth ..For what????..This is the answer: Great people have said that history should be read and learned so that we don't repeat the mistakes of the past (I don't know who has said this and i don't know what mistakes have taken place.) at least we know our history and mistakes and now is the time to improve them. and not just that, other possibilities that can take place. ...How???? Answer: Since we are now back to holding our ground and can see the reality, its easy to look for widen up our thinking process and think beyond what we have thought to be our limits.( What we think our limit is, becomes our limit, so....) and by this, see all the situations which might come and be prepared for those.

If you have not got something, then wasting time thinking for it is....a waste of time...Instead think that it was not luck but something else..and that something (GOD or DESTINY or even DEVIL) wants you to learn something more than what you have already learned...and if you learn that, you will certainly get better from what you desire..because that will be what you deserve....hard-work never goes in vain..so rest assured, if you have really worked hard, you will get something better then what you think, just continue the hard-work, coz....

LIFE IS GOING THE SAME WAY IT WAS EARLIER....SO WHY CANT WE...

LIFE.....

In a seminar I was told to keep things SIMPLE.....so you might not find a good English vocab in here.

About LIFE.....
Well to tell about, I tried to find every single synonym to it, tried to search in every possible direction, went for every clue and options, and i found only this....LIFE..... as what it is..

The whole logic of which is being simple. Its a gift(For it is granted to us) flooded with perceptions, decisions, happiness, wisdom (Those who posses). and numerous other things, but having one thing as a base...THE TRUE YOU.....

PERCEPTIONS....
Now a little insights...How do we make our perceptions ? Through knowledge, through experience, or various other considerations. But what is justified is our attitude, not just on how we are viewing the picture, but how WELL we are viewing others as well..(Believe me friends, this has been the major reason for conflicts amongst our best friends, bringing disparities in our relationships, and ultimately, RUINING our LIVES..) On brighter side, It is a thing which justifies you as you are. which would reflect our judgment, one thing with which happiness of ourselves and others rely.